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Sex Toys for Couples
by MrsPuddlesFL
For couples, toys can add an exciting different dimension to their sex life. They're all about giving pleasure to your partner and to yourself. Getting your partner off using toys can be very exciting for both of you. The one using the toy is getting to see their partner up close and personal. It's a little different than intercourse, and the one who's getting the attention is simply being pleasured for the sake of their partner wanting to make them feel good. If you're in a relationship where you're not with the person as often as you'd like to be, what a special gift it is to  give them something to remind them of you every time they use it and you know they'll be satisfied and not looking elsewhere while you're not there.
There are all kinds of toys to play with. Dildo's, vibrators, clitoral
stimulators, anal toys, bondage accessories, g-spot vibes, etc. It seems that most toys are geared towards women with few toys for men's pleasure, but from the guys I've talked with, just using the toys on their women as a means of foreplay. Watching her get off is satisfaction enough for them until they take their turn in intercourse or receiving oral. Guys like visual stimulation and watching their girl being worked up into a frenzy helps them get off too.
Some toys can be used during intercourse. Clitoral stimulators are great to include while the guy is penetrating her. They're especially good for women who have difficulty achieving orgasm through intercourse alone. For the women who don't have difficulty, adding in clitoral vibe stimulation just absolutely
rocks! Either partner can be the one using it, depending on the position your both in. With the girl on top, she can use it on herself easily and he can just relax and enjoy the view while she's riding him. Vibrating eggs are fun because they're felt by both partners during intercourse and they're basically hands free.
One thing that goes hand in hand  with toy use is lube. You don't want to use toys without it! My recent favorite is ID Lube. It's not overly slippery and doesn't dry quickly like some water-based lubes can. You should always use water-based lubricants when you're using a condom or latex toys.
One of my favorite toys is the swing. It has a strap that goes across your back, one under your butt, and two stirrups for your feet. It's great for deep penetration and it's easy on the guy since he's not supporting his weight on his arms. The guy can also be in the swing with the girl on top. The angle is excellent for g-spot stimulation too. It can be used for giving your partner (either guy or girl) oral sex too. Just something different to spice it up a bit. Her hands are free to play with her breasts or to grab a hold of her man and control the penetration, how fast or slow, how deep or shallow.
I also like g-spot vibrators. They're designed differently than regular vibes, angled up or with a bulb tip to hit the girl's g-spot. They're usually not very big and can be used easily in combination with anal penetration. Most of them have a strong buzz at the tip so it can double as a clitoral vibe as well.
Sex is fun and adding in some toys is just another part of the fun. Don't be shy or intimidated, just enjoy! If you don't want to walk into an adult toy store you can shop online. I like Tease Me Please Me. Just look around and find something that sparks an interest for you and share it with
your partner.
* Article by MrsPuddlesFL. MrsPuddlesFL is a moderator at Superior Muscle.
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